{"id":168,"date":"2016-02-21T11:54:39","date_gmt":"2016-02-21T11:54:39","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.abdlsites.com\/blog\/?p=168"},"modified":"2026-03-03T19:48:07","modified_gmt":"2026-03-04T00:48:07","slug":"168-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.abdlsites.com\/blog\/168-2\/","title":{"rendered":"Pathetic Lovers"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-169 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/www.abdlsites.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/02\/364049144-225x300.jpg\" alt=\"364049144\" width=\"225\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.abdlsites.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/02\/364049144-225x300.jpg 225w, https:\/\/www.abdlsites.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/02\/364049144.jpg 600w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 225px) 100vw, 225px\" \/><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center\">Why is it that every time I think I\u2019ve found the perfect guy they always end up turning into some <a href=\"http:\/\/phoneamommy.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">submissive<\/a> loser? Am I some magnet to the pathetic part of the male population? I feel like every guy I date turns out to be strong willed and masculine but my dominance always overpowers their male nature and I end up with loser guys bending backwards for me just because they\u2019re too much of a coward to tell me no. It\u2019s like they all flock to me because they\u2019re so pathetic they don\u2019t know what to do with themselves or know how to make decisions on their own. They obviously don\u2019t wear the pants in the relationship. So I take these losers in and I slowly start to rob them of every bit of masculinity and dominance they have left in them. They come over thinking their going to score some when really all they end up doing is cleaning my house and rubbing my feet while I sip on a cocktail. It\u2019s amusing at how easy it is to break them down and turn them into my little <a href=\"http:\/\/phoneamommy.com\/crissy.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">emasculated slave<\/a>. I drain them of literally everything and make them totally dependent on me so they can never leave. By the time I\u2019m through with them all they have left is a desire to serve and cater to my every need. And that\u2019s how it should always be. You down on your knees, waiting for my next command.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center\">Crissy<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center\">888*430*2010<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-medium wp-image-170\" src=\"https:\/\/www.abdlsites.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/02\/5AXMKDs09Jx-225x300.jpg\" alt=\"5AXMKDs09Jx\" width=\"225\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.abdlsites.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/02\/5AXMKDs09Jx-225x300.jpg 225w, https:\/\/www.abdlsites.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/02\/5AXMKDs09Jx.jpg 600w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 225px) 100vw, 225px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Some babies need regular maintenance spankings to keep them on their best behavior. Mommy schedules them every week, regardless of whether you have been good or bad. You go over her knee, accept your spanks, and then get a fresh diaper and a treat. It is a routine that reinforces the structure and discipline that every ABDL craves. Call 1-888-430-2010 and tell mommy about your spanking fantasies. She is waiting to put you over her knee.<\/p>\n<p>Every naughty baby needs a good spanking from time to time. Mommy does not enjoy punishing you, but she knows it is necessary to keep you in line. She pulls you over her knee, lifts your shirt, and pulls down your diaper. The first smack stings but it is the anticipation that really gets you. You know each spank is given with love and authority. By the time she is done, you are a sobbing, sorry little baby ready to behave.<\/p>\n<p>Corner time after a spanking is a classic punishment that mommy loves to use. You stand in the corner with your red bottom on display, hands on your head, thinking about what you did wrong. Mommy checks on you every few minutes to make sure you are being a good baby. When she finally lets you out of the corner, you apologize, get your diaper back on, and promise to be better. The whole experience brings you closer to your mommy.<\/p>\n<p>Mommy has a whole collection of spanking implements. Her hand is always the first choice for minor offenses. The wooden spoon comes out for repeated bad behavior. And for serious naughtiness, there is the dreaded hairbrush. You know exactly which one she is reaching for by the look on her face. The anticipation is almost worse than the spanking itself. But you also know that every punishment ends with cuddles, forgiveness, and a fresh start.<\/p>\n<p>There is something cathartic about being spanked. All the stress and tension you carry around as an adult melts away with each smack. You cry, you let it all out, and when it is over, you feel lighter. Mommy holds you close, rubs your sore bottom, and whispers that everything is okay. You have paid for your naughtiness and now you have a clean slate. That emotional release is why so many ABDLs crave discipline from their caregivers.<\/p>\n<p>Spanking is one of the oldest forms of discipline, and in the ABDL world, it takes on a special meaning. When mommy spanks you, she is reinforcing the power dynamic between caregiver and baby. She is in charge, and you must follow her rules. Some babies get spanked with mommy&#8217;s hand, others with a paddle or hairbrush. The implement does not matter as much as the lesson being taught. Be good, or face the consequences.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Why is it that every time I think I\u2019ve found the perfect guy they always end up turning into some submissive loser? Am I some&#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":170,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[500,502],"tags":[7,227],"class_list":["post-168","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-abdl-2","category-abdl-diary","tag-fetish-phone-sex","tag-submissive-phone-sex"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.abdlsites.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/168","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.abdlsites.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.abdlsites.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.abdlsites.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.abdlsites.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=168"}],"version-history":[{"count":4,"href":"https:\/\/www.abdlsites.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/168\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2964,"href":"https:\/\/www.abdlsites.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/168\/revisions\/2964"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.abdlsites.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/170"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.abdlsites.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=168"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.abdlsites.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=168"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.abdlsites.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=168"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}